人性真相, The Truth About Human Nature
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人性真相:
1、總是欺負你的人,反抗一次他會怕,這就是人性。
3、微笑和沉默是兩把利器,微笑解決很多問題,沉默避免許多問題。不要完全相信一個人,永遠要留一張保命牌在自己手中。
4、突如其來的脾氣往往都是積攢很久的委屈。
5、永遠不要對傷害你的人抱有任何希望。
6、人只有落魄一次,身邊的人和鬼就會出現了。
7、沒人會是你一輩子的靠山,萬事只有靠自己
8、你要成為一個別人,作弊都超越不了的人。
9、不要讓你父母老去的速度快過你成功的速度。
10、留住留不住的東西就扔遠一點,畢竟強迫留住的並不是真心的。
11、戳到痛處的玩笑從來都不是玩笑,而是真心話。
12、見什麼人就說什麼話這不是虛偽這是真實。
13、你放棄自己的時候世界在變,人性在變。所以你不得不變。
14、萬事只能靠自己,用不著誰來瞧不起。
15、死了心要走的人,多看一眼都覺得是多餘。
16、你讓別人舒服了,你就是贏家,別人讓你舒服了,你就是消費者。
富人思維 ~ 懂得識人 ~ 才能不重蹈覆轍 ~ 而開拓人生坦途 ~~
My English Translation:
The Truth About Human Nature
Understanding human nature can be complex, but here are some insights that may resonate with you:
- Fear and Control: If you consistently bully someone, they may feel intimidated by you. However, if you resist them even once, it can shake their confidence. This reflects a fundamental aspect of human dynamics.
- Words in Anger: When someone is angry, their words often reveal their true feelings. It’s essential to listen carefully, as anger can strip away pretense and expose honesty.
- The Power of Smile and Silence: A smile can diffuse tension and create connections, while silence can prevent misunderstandings. Use these tools wisely; they can resolve many conflicts. Remember, it’s wise to maintain a bit of caution—don’t trust anyone completely, and keep a backup plan in your pocket.
- Accumulated Grievances: Sudden outbursts of anger often stem from long-standing frustrations. It’s crucial to recognize the buildup of emotions in ourselves and others.
- Healing from Hurt: If someone has caused you pain, it’s best not to hold onto hope for their change. Protect your heart and prioritize your well-being.
- True Colors in Hard Times: When someone is struggling, the people around them—both friends and detractors—will reveal their true intentions. This is when you can truly assess your support system.
- Self-Reliance: Ultimately, no one can be your lifelong support. It’s important to cultivate independence and rely on yourself for strength and guidance.
- Strive for Excellence: Aim to be someone who stands out, even in challenging circumstances. Your resilience and determination can set you apart.
- Parental Care: Don’t let your parents age faster than you achieve your dreams. Their sacrifices deserve recognition and gratitude.
- Letting Go: If something or someone doesn’t genuinely belong in your life, it’s okay to let it go. Forcing connections that aren’t sincere can lead to more pain.
- Truth in Humor: Jokes that sting often carry a kernel of truth. Be mindful of humor that may hurt others—it’s worth considering the impact of your words.
- Speak Your Truth: Don’t shy away from expressing your thoughts and feelings. Authenticity is not hypocrisy; it’s a reflection of your true self.
- Embrace Change: When you feel like giving up, remember that the world is constantly evolving. Adaptation is key; embrace change to grow alongside it.
- Self-Respect: You don’t need anyone’s judgment to validate your worth. Stand tall and believe in yourself.
- Letting Go of Departures: If someone has decided to leave your life, it’s often best to let them go without looking back. Focus on those who choose to stay.
- Creating Comfort: If you can make others feel at ease, you are winning in social dynamics. Conversely, if others make you feel comfortable, you are in the role of the consumer in that relationship.
Lastly, remember that those who are successful know how to assess people wisely. Learning from past mistakes and fostering healthy relationships can pave the way for a smoother journey through life.
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